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28 How Does Your Business Change Lives with Greg Smith

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25 Change Your Energy Change Your Life with Justine Watt

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Connection…People Trust People, Not Brands – Melissa J Scott

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It’s very rare I catch a sunrise… but catching

It’s very rare I catch a sunrise… but catching a big red full moon rising out of the water tonight while I was walking the esplanade after work… that was pure bliss!!
Been doing lots of meditating and journalling lately, so sitting under a full moon tonight just capped it off! Very grounding and so grateful to live in a beautiful part of the world.
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BE NICE & DON'T HOLD GRUDGES! Happy Friday to all

When I turned 50 last year I very nearly imploded!

When I turned 50 last year I very nearly imploded! Ha ha, I look back at it now and shake my head at how tough I was on myself. It all came from a place of having too many rigid expectations on being at a certain place in my life by a certain time. And even though it took a little while and losing my voice for a couple of months, as soon as I realised I had to let go of those expectations and the "I should be" statements, I started feeling soooooo much better.

I also changed the things that were in my control, that I wasn't happy about. (We can do that you know!!)

• End that relationship if it isn't working for you (and you've given it a red hot go).
• Sack that client/friend/family member if they make you miserable.
• Forgive people that have 'done you wrong'. They're only doing the best they can.
• Not where you thought you'd be in life? Let those societal expectations go. You're EXACTLY where you're meant to be, so just be there and learn what you're supposed to by being in that experience, and then move through it rather than avoid it, because the lesson never leaves you!
• Love the people who stand by you, appreciate them. And tell them.
• Find what you are passionate about, and pursue that. We are allowed to feel joy every day, pursue that.
• Get to know yourself and your triggers. And then work on them if they are negatively impacting you. There is an opportunity for growth every day if we remain open.
• Become your own best friend. Learn how to self soothe - not look for comfort/praise/acceptance from others.
• Laugh and love. It doesn't have to be a romantic partner. Love your friends. Love your kids. Love your family. There is so much love around us, revel in what you have rather than what you don't.
• Love yourself. You are uniquely awesome.

I'm 51 in a couple of weeks and I'm happy to say that I'm really okay with it. I now realise I'm in an awesome stage of my life, no matter how different it may look to society's expectations of where I "should be".
I learn something new about myself every day, and can always find something to be grateful for and to love, and that being healthy and alive is such a gift. And that is all that matters.
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Well I’m all for trying new things, and last nig

Well I’m all for trying new things, and last night we went to the Nitro Drag Races! My ears are possibly permanently damaged from the noise of the engines, my throat is dried out from the fumes, and I don’t think my nervous system will ever get over the first race and the physical impact of the sound waves hitting you in the guts when the cars take off…!!!

But wow, what a great adrenalin rush if you’re into cars and things that go bloody fast!
Ha ha, my turn to choose an activity next weekend Mark DeBattista… look out xo

#loveyourlife #bucketlist #sydneydragway

Sometimes the simplest things in life are the best

Sometimes the simplest things in life are the best.

Smiling at a stranger and giving them a kind compliment for no reason at all but to make them feel good.
Being grateful for what you do have in the moment, and not worrying about what you think you want.
Getting out of bed and catching the early part of the morning before ‘life’ kicks in.
Move your body, even if just going for a walk in nature.
Let the early morning sun and fresh air hit your face and then…
Sit. Watch. Breathe. Just slow down!
Whatever has to happen can wait and if it can’t, make the time and get up earlier.
Think of 10 things you love about yourself and say them to yourself slowly. Feel it.
Send a message to somebody that you care about and tell them 10 things you appreciate about them.
Give without expecting anything in return.
Forgive people, just let it go.
Forgive yourself. We can be our worst critics. Stop that negative self talk.
Smile.
Laugh.

And share your good mood with everyone you come into contact with. Because happiness is a way of life and it is contagious.

And if you are unhappy with some things in your life, use this early morning time to create the vision of what you want, and hold those good feeling emotions with you all day. I guarantee your life will change when you slow down and focus on the good and not the bad.
Xo

#sunrise #businessowner #personadevelopment #behappy #positivemindset #choosehappiness #lifecoach

What I’m finding lately with new clients is that

What I’m finding lately with new clients is that they’re doing ‘bits and pieces’ of marketing in a really adhoc kind of way, but they have no real strategy to the content they create, and certainly no consistency around its delivery!

And then they’re disappointed when it gets lame results so they stop altogether!

Marketing is such an opportunity for your business to grow. But it’s also a massive time drain with little rewards if you don’t do it smart and make real connections with your audience, which result in new business.

More and more I’m putting together marketing strategies and action plans for clients to either run themselves, or continue on with me to help them find a marketing assistant and then train them up to be a really valuable resource in their business. Their number one job is creating content and making you as visible (and appealing!) as possible to your potential customers. And your job is to keep being your brilliant self and delivering an awesome service!

You’re probably not a marketing expert… and you don’t need to be. That’s how we support you and your team. So when you’re ready, let’s have a chat about how to finally show up as the number one choice in your industry. And get the business that you deserve.
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#connectionmarketing #businessowner #personalbranding #businessplan #marketingstrategy #marketingcoach #contentcreation

Being outdoors is my love language, so when the we

Being outdoors is my love language, so when the weather forecast wasn’t rain and I had a coaching client 5 mins from here this morning… no prizes for guessing where I headed next with my laptop and notepad to do some work ON my business (and not just in it!)

Take your shoes off, sit on the grass, feel the sun and breeze on your skin and let yourself think and strategize big for the upcoming year!!

We have had such challenging times the past couple of years that have seen so many businesses crumble. Life hasn’t returned back to normal. It is different. And we need to catch up and map out a path of how we take our business forward on the other side of lockdowns.

Staffing and reinvigorating their business are my clients’ biggest challenges. Motivating tired and stressed (and sick!) team members. Finding new team. Reinvigorating bank balances. Finding new markets. Learning new technology. Finding ways to excite your audience who are completely over zoom and still unsure about public events. Reinventing tired old marketing strategies… there’s a lot to do. And it can be overwhelming.

So the first step is get in tune with what you want to achieve this year and next, map out a plan to get you there and figure out who’s going to help you.
And the next step after that is to get some help if you’re struggling with the first step!
Get in touch. Because creating a solid marketing action plan is exactly what we do.
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#connectionmarketing #businessplan #marketingplan #businessowner #businesswoman #businessbusinessbusiness #businessman

To my darling son @kygavv 21 today!! And what a

To my darling son @kygavv
21 today!!
And what a way to celebrate you last night! You are such a bright shining light… you always have been. Your kindness, sensitivity, creativity, humour, dedication, and loyalty are such beautiful traits.

Watching you jump up on stage last night and sing, totally in the moment, made me so proud. You are always such a team player, to watch you step up on your own and try something solo was amazing and one of my favourite memories of you so far.

Wishing you the most amazing adventures in life and can’t wait to watch you shine even brighter! You have a wonderful base of friends who we all loved partying with last night, a gorgeous partner who we adore (and adores you), a loving family who will always have your back… you really do have the world at your feet! Enjoy being 21 and seize life honey.

Happy birthday, lots of love from your mum xxx

(Ps - here is a random smash up of photos from the party at our place. Ky built the stage, designed the lighting and put it all together. It was a ‘k’ party if you’re wondering! most costumes were very cryptic!)

Special thanks to @nickmackey__ for the incredible entertainment. Really made the night. X

April has been a very social month! Love catching

April has been a very social month!
Love catching up with these girls (and the boys). We met through a business group and it has grown into such a supportive and fun-filled friendship. So grateful.
These are my ‘dream big and live even bigger friends!! Everyone needs some of those!
xo

Only in 2022 would you be attending a Christmas Pa

Only in 2022 would you be attending a Christmas Party in April!!! But we finally got there and celebrated hard with our wonderful clients @cateringhq at the very beautiful Doltone House Hyde Park. The professionalism, generosity and success of Steve and Albie and their massively growing team over the past few years just makes me so happy. I've loved being part of their journey and sharing in their success on nights like this is just the icing on the cake.

In the past few years (taking into consideration 2 of them were in lockdown!) they're now based in 11 different club sites around Sydney and surroundings. They've opened 2 new Asian Dumpling concept restaurants. They have a new warehouse and kitchen site for their own Catering HQ Logistics company, and just recently partnered with hospitality app Hospitality Genie (which we've just started helping them create fresh marketing material for!). And they now even have their own finance division!

It just takes my breathe away to see them grow and it was great to be part of it and reconnect with their awesome management team, get to meet up with old business friends and make some new ones!

Looking forward to the future with these guys, it's always fun, fast and very, very fulfilling.
Thanks Steve and Jo once again for your hospitality.
x

#connectionmarketing #lovemyclients #businessowner #hospitality #marketingcoach #branding #personalbranding

This Easter was all about family, being with those

This Easter was all about family, being with those I love and doing what I love! Hope you had an awesome one too.
Life is definitely what you make it x

Not gonna lie, I’ve always been a bit of a night

Not gonna lie, I’ve always been a bit of a night owl! I love how quiet it is at night when everyone has gone to bed. But recently I have been getting up early on weekend mornings to go to the beach and catch the first part of the day, eating fresh fruit for brekkie in the early morning sunshine and going for a nice walk along the esplanade. And it truly is beautiful, and very healing.

I’m even considering confronting my fear of waves and learning how to ocean swim over winter. (I’m the girl that fell over in knee high water last year at the beach In rough waves and broke her wrist!! So doing this is a big deal for me!)

Much love to everybody who reached out to me this week and was so caring. It truly helps and I have so much gratitude for everybody in my life. I let go of people long ago that were angsty, judgmental or had draining energy. And the difference it makes is amazing. You really do get to choose who you do life with, and I’ve chosen very well.

Lots of love.
Melissa
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(On a side note, the angel card I drew for myself this morning after I got back from the beach was serenity! - and if you know me I totally don’t believe in coincidences. Wishing you lots of peace, calmness, joy and happiness this long weekend.)

#personaldevelopment #personaldevelopmentcoach #loveyourlife #healthylifestyle #heal #lovelife #gratitude #gratitudeattitude

Wishing you all a safe and very happy few days off

I don't know if you ever get over a loss like Stev

I don't know if you ever get over a loss like Steve. How could you? He was larger than life itself. He filled the room with his energy and charisma and had such a way with people from every walk of life. He oozed authenticity. Everyone either loved him, wanted to drink with him, or was intimidated by him... or maybe a little of all of the above!

Either way, I was lucky enough that he was my husband, stepfather to my children and the man I thought I'd spend the rest of my life with.

It's been 5 years since he passed today and I've learned a lot... sometimes the hard way. But I am proud to say I have gotten to know more about myself in 5 years than I ever knew in the 45 years before that. And what I've come to learn is how important it is to have a strong sense of who YOU are as a lone person, and to have the strength and grace to sit with yourself when life isn't going as you would choose.

I have to be honest, I've been chasing that feeling of deep connection and love to get back what I miss the most about my old life... having a 'complete' family and a sense of belonging with somebody. And what I've come to learn is that all along that feeling is deep inside of yourself... (I'm still learning that one!)

So today I am sending so much love to everybody that knew him, loved him, miss him and especially to his kids, our kids, his friends and our families.
So much love. You are never forgotten Steve.
It was a privilege to be in your life and to have shared so much with you. It was way too short, but definitely one of the greatest gifts of my life.
xx

HOW ARE PEOPLE ‘EXPERIENCING' YOU AND YOUR BUSIN

LESSONS FROM ROCK CLIMBING I went back out for my

LESSONS FROM ROCK CLIMBING
I went back out for my second go at rock climbing yesterday and graduated to the second level! (I'm following the little black rocks on this course with an overhang in the first section, if you're interested in how it works - you aren't allowed to just grab onto any colour rock!)

Why I particularly like rock climbing is because:
💪 It's physical and a great workout!
👏 It's a challenge on many levels... you don't get to 50 and not climb a few personal mountains, so the analogy of climbing things and getting over your fears is not lost on me at all!
😀 I can do it with a top chick like Anna, who frequently encourages me a lot to get out of my comfort zone, which is a good thing!
🤓 It's problem solving in mid air, your brain working just as much as your body!
🤸‍♀️ When you get out of your comfort zone, it expands your thoughts around what is possible in other areas of your life where you could be growing
⭐️ There is so much trust required. It's awesome for letting go of control - which is limiting in itself. I am learning trust in myself and my abilities, trust in my equipment, trust in partner on the ropes... 🎯 and trust that everything will be ok in life if you just keep a keen eye on any real dangers, rationalise/prepare for them, and then take that leap and propel yourself forward.

Much like running your own business really!!
Hope you're having an awesome day too.
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#connectionmarketing #businessowners #personaldevelopment #trustyourself #selflove #loveyourlife

So the weather forecast for tomorrow afternoon is

So the weather forecast for tomorrow afternoon is sunny and 26 degrees!! Sounds like a perfect afternoon to get down to the Kurnell Recreation Club and see your favourite band (that’s @evolution_rock_1) play some awesome Aussie and Classic hits from the 80's right through to popular songs of today. We've been working on a few new numbers and excited to play them for you!

Are you ready?! If you want a table you might want to book ahead and reserve with the club, because the best spots are getting snapped up already. And after all the crappy weather we've had we're ready to rock it out and party, and I reckon you are too!!
See you there!

160 Captain Cook Dr, Kurnell
Between 3pm - 6pm.

#evolutionrock #classicrock #coversband #sydneymusic

Yesterday wasn’t the best weather day for a harb

Yesterday wasn’t the best weather day for a harbour cruise on Sydney Harbour… but the past couple of years haven’t been the best time for a lot of businesses too! My clients O’Brien Palmer run their annual harbour cruise to celebrate and recognize their business relationships and I wouldn’t miss it for anything!

It’s definitely what you make of it and the attitude that you bring that determines the outcome! I made new business friends, cemented my relationships with my clients/friends even further, met some potential new business, and even booked a gig for my band! Ha ha.

And I could easily have opted out and stayed at home where it was nice and warm and dry, and missed all these opportunities. Life is what you make it, and how you do one thing is how you do everything. Love your life, don’t worry about a bit of discomfort, support those you care about, be open to new opportunities and see the potential in everything! It’s an adventure!!

Hope you have an awesome weekend.
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#marketingstrategy #marketingcoach #businesscoach #businessbusinessbusiness #businessowner #businessowners

I caught up this week with my coaching, branding a

I caught up this week with my coaching, branding and website client Greg Smith, from Admins The Answer. What a legend, he has had really good growth in every aspect of his business over the past 12 months, but none moreso than in his mental attitude towards his business and expansion.

When we came together a year ago and created his marketing strategy, I encouraged him to think globally for his business vision. Not just "be the best in his local area"... but to think on a bigger, worldwide global scale. And at the time he was a bit bashful about it, but after our catch up this week, he thanked me for planting that tiny seed.

Because every time he revisits his mission and vision (which should be daily!), it resets his brain and he starts ACTING like a business owner on a global path, and therefore CREATING far more OPPORTUNITIES than if he'd remained small in his thinking. And no surprises that soon he'll be opening up his business all around Australia. And then why not the world!!

So my point is... why limit ourselves to thinking small? What's the worst that can happen? You become the best in the state or country? I don't think you'd view that as failure even if you didn't make it to a global level. The danger is, when you set the benchmark so low... you will never get past that low bar.

And that's why you need a marketing and performance coach to help you through that thinking and planning.
Food for thought huh!

#marketingstrategy #marketingtips #businessplan #marketingcoach #connectionmarketing #dreambig

So this is what it looks like when you get up earl

So this is what it looks like when you get up early on a Sunday morning! Heavenly. Trying not to sound corny… just remembering to be grateful for good health and happiness, even amongst all the messiness and the chaos! And to welcome in all the opportunities and growth.
Life is good and should be cherished. I’ve gone a little quiet and inward since last years lockdown, it’s taking a bit to come back… but it’s coming!
So here’s to living the best version of your life. Whatever you choose that to be.
Much love
❤️
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#liveyourbestlife #50 #personaldevelopment #lovelife

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